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• HikingVet@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I don’t have one. I find questions like this to be inflammatory

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  • big_slap@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    im not sure why you found it inflammatory as it was a genuine question. regardless, apologies

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    • HikingVet@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Take a moment to think about that.

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      • big_slap@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        thought about it. I’m still unsure because I was trying to have a conversation and compare numbers, but no need to elaborate I dont want to offend you further

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  • kajib@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Super weird response imo. There’s nothing wrong with prefering more people to check in, you don’t need a specific number

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    • HikingVet@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      And that’s what I’m trying to get across.

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  • Leg@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I used to have no one in my life who’d initiate, and was quite happy with that. So from my perspective, 3 does sound like a good number of friends willing to keep you in their circle, but of course we don’t know the first thing about you or your circumstances. What is it about those 3 people that makes it feel like their effort isn’t enough to stop your feelings of isolation? I assume if it’s not about quantity, it’s about quality. Am I on the mark, or is it something else you find unsatisfactory?

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