I used to have no one in my life whoâd initiate, and was quite happy with that. So from my perspective, 3 does sound like a good number of friends willing to keep you in their circle, but of course we donât know the first thing about you or your circumstances. What is it about those 3 people that makes it feel like their effort isnât enough to stop your feelings of isolation? I assume if itâs not about quantity, itâs about quality. Am I on the mark, or is it something else you find unsatisfactory?
HikingVet@lemmy.ca â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
No, Iâm not. Just because you are mire isolated than me, does not mean I am lucky.
big_slap@lemmy.world â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
whatâs an ideal number of people you consider to be sufficient? just curious
HikingVet@lemmy.ca â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
I donât have one. I find questions like this to be inflammatory
big_slap@lemmy.world â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
im not sure why you found it inflammatory as it was a genuine question. regardless, apologies
kajib@lemmy.dbzer0.com â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Super weird response imo. Thereâs nothing wrong with prefering more people to check in, you donât need a specific number
Leg@sh.itjust.works â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
I used to have no one in my life whoâd initiate, and was quite happy with that. So from my perspective, 3 does sound like a good number of friends willing to keep you in their circle, but of course we donât know the first thing about you or your circumstances. What is it about those 3 people that makes it feel like their effort isnât enough to stop your feelings of isolation? I assume if itâs not about quantity, itâs about quality. Am I on the mark, or is it something else you find unsatisfactory?