I’m not saying you sound angry at me, you sound angry at your own heritage. Latina is the female of Latino, you said you’re not a son, so the assumption is that you’re a daughter. Yes, there’s nothing biological, there’s also nothing biological in being a Mexican or an Argentinian, but regardless of how you feel about it you’re still a Mexican and I’m still an Argentinian, nothing racist about that. You might not identify ad Mexican, but you are, and others will identify you as such, there’s nothing wrong nor right with being a certain nationality or culture, you are Mexican and you are Latino, you don’t have to be a stereotype of either, nor do you need to agree with what others Mexicans or Latinos think about anything.
You keep saying you like to stay neutral, but you grew up in Mexico from what you told, so your neutral is different from mine, and it’s different from an Irish or Italian. Culture is in everything, a food that you might consider weird is someone else’s favourite breakfast, e.g. toast with beans in the UK, and where you grew up informs a lot of what you consider neutral.
You can be Latin and live your life as if you weren’t, one thing does not contradict the other, just like you’re Mexican and that doesn’t necessarily tell me anything about you or how you live your life. In fact Mexican is a subset of Latin, so if you are Mexican you are by definition Latin. But like I said, there is no such thing as neutral when we’re talking about culture, what you think is neutral will sound strange to other people.
Nibodhika@lemmy.world 11 months ago
I’m not saying you sound angry at me, you sound angry at your own heritage. Latina is the female of Latino, you said you’re not a son, so the assumption is that you’re a daughter. Yes, there’s nothing biological, there’s also nothing biological in being a Mexican or an Argentinian, but regardless of how you feel about it you’re still a Mexican and I’m still an Argentinian, nothing racist about that. You might not identify ad Mexican, but you are, and others will identify you as such, there’s nothing wrong nor right with being a certain nationality or culture, you are Mexican and you are Latino, you don’t have to be a stereotype of either, nor do you need to agree with what others Mexicans or Latinos think about anything.
You keep saying you like to stay neutral, but you grew up in Mexico from what you told, so your neutral is different from mine, and it’s different from an Irish or Italian. Culture is in everything, a food that you might consider weird is someone else’s favourite breakfast, e.g. toast with beans in the UK, and where you grew up informs a lot of what you consider neutral.
01adrianrdgz@lemmy.world 11 months ago
Nibodhika@lemmy.world 11 months ago
You can be Latin and live your life as if you weren’t, one thing does not contradict the other, just like you’re Mexican and that doesn’t necessarily tell me anything about you or how you live your life. In fact Mexican is a subset of Latin, so if you are Mexican you are by definition Latin. But like I said, there is no such thing as neutral when we’re talking about culture, what you think is neutral will sound strange to other people.