Comment on Why do russian parents insist on being treated to home cooked meals?

Nemo@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

• ieatmeat@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  I get it, but on the other hand I don’t want to spend half of my birthday in the kitchen

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  • Yaky@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    You see Ivan, birthday is for other people to eat, drink, and have fun, not for you.

    Kinda like a big wedding in the US I guess? Bride and groom are not the ones having fun.

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• Steve@communick.news ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  You had me until “it tasts better”.
  That’s entirely dependent on the cook. And very few home cooked meals are better than average restaurants. There’s a reason restaurants and professional cooks can make a living. If home cooking was so much better so often, nobody would bother going out to eat.

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  • Nemo@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I go put to eat because I can get a meal that’s almost as good as homemade with about four hours less preparation on my part. That’s why people go out to eat.

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    • Steve@communick.news ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      That’s your judgement of your food. It’s natural for you to have a number of biases to favor your own cooking. Most notably the 4 hours of effort it takes you.

      But home cooking isn’t generally that. It’s the 20-40min one puts in right after getting home from work. Comparing your most intensive 4h hours of effort against something a restaurant cook does absent mindedly isn’t really a comparison. If they put in your effort you wouldn’t have a chance.

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      • Nemo@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Well, to be fair, we are talking about “special occasion” food specifically, not weeknight goulash.

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  • Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    It takes very little knowledge or effort for a home cooked meal to cost 1/4 of, and taste better than, 90% of restaurants.

    And after a few years of cooking that number rises to 98%+ of restaurants.

    You can’t pay me to eat at a chain of any kind any more. At this point I have to go to a specialty place (where the entrees are $50 to $100) to eat better than I do at home.

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    • Steve@communick.news ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Cheeper sure. Not a chance it’s better in blind taste tests. That’s all confirmation bias from you putting in the effort to make it yourself. You can’t be an objective judge if your own food.

      If your food were really that much better than everyone else’s you’d be able to make a fortune with your own restaurant. And if you enjoyed it, you might be happier doing that for work instead of whatever you currently do.

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