I am surprised that a lot of people think it would be exhausting to act differently around different people. Isn’t it just an automatic vibe thing that happens naturally? I have different interests and different personality traits and which ones show stronger absolutely depends on the person I am talking with. It’s literally easier to not be the same one size fits all person around everyone. I also wouldn’t call it disingenuous, I am not hiding anything, I just enjoy different kinds of people and interactions naturally adjust. It would be really boring and antisocial to only talk about the same stuff the same way with everyone.