Comment on Discussion Thread 🛼 Wednesday 21 January 2026

indisin@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• Catfish@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Persons who choose to work in said industry (rather than feeling they have no other option) tend to be a caring sort. It’s not at all unusual to pay for just a chat. I’m more concerned you chose this option so quickly rather than talking to your own brain.

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  • indisin@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I have severe ADHD, and to explain that I means instant gratification is always the right option. I deeply want to and consciously are trying to change that. But in an emergency crisis, gotta do what I know will help me. You get me?

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    • Catfish@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      In the sense I have the same thing yes, your way of dealing with it NO

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      • indisin@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I’m overly open to change, more than any person you know, and so will genuinely will try anything.What you you do? I have psychologists, I have 2 GPs, I have a lawyer, but hearing from just a random other person feels kind and I respect that

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• SaneMartigan@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I was recommended California Club when I asked a friend in the industry on behalf of another friend who is approaching 40yo virgin territory. CaliClub apparently treats their staff well. Asking for the deluxe rather than basic was the other important advice I received. Basic being more of a smash n dash service.

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  • indisin@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Thanks for your recommendation, I went to Scarlett and genuinely focused on hugs. Will check them out though ❤️

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    • SaneMartigan@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Hug therapy is a thing. I knew a hug therapist. No intercourse or sexuality, just hugging.

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      • indisin@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Do you have a link / referral?

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