“It” is personally my favorite neutral pronoun, but it has so much cultural baggage attached to it that it doesn’t feel like a viable option. Why does a squirrel or a ficus or a robot get to be called “it” by default, but not a person? It isn’t fair.
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floquant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
I’ve run into this a while ago but I’m not sure what to make of it. aria.dog/barks/on-being-a-thing/
stray@pawb.social 1 month ago
Venat0r@lemmy.world 1 month ago
it’s generally used to describe non-sentient things…
Also, using only it gets confusing when trying to determine what “it” refers to in a given sentence…
stray@pawb.social 1 month ago
What’s not sentient about a squirrel?
Can you give an example of how “it” is confusing? Like “It met its friend for coffee,” sounds fine to me. “It put on a warm jacket since it was cold out,” uses multiple senses of the word, but it still reads fine to me.
“They” is mildly confusing in narratives because it can be hard to distinguish whether one or multiple characters are being described, but it’s not an insurmountable problem.
Venat0r@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I think it might be most confusing when someone talks about someone who uses “it/its” pronouns: my initial assumption would be that they’re trying to dehumanise it unless I was already previously aware of it’s pronown preference.
Venat0r@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Venat0r@lemmy.world 1 month ago
that’s a good point, I think it depends on the person, but some people tend to just assume the squirrels gender in most instances rather than saying “it”.
JesusChristLover420@lemmy.sdf.org 1 month ago
You should have answered with more empathy for its feelings. Jesus Christ told us to love our neighbours.
JesusChristLover420@lemmy.sdf.org 1 month ago
It’s your choice. Do what you want. Damn the haters to sheol.
stray@pawb.social 1 month ago
The haters are the root of the problem, but it’s not like I’m not using it/its because I’m afraid of being scolded or made fun of. It’s unfortunately tied to dehumanization in the sense that not being human is a bad thing, and that makes it fun for bigots to say and uncomfortable for good people to say. I lament the situation, but I also accept the way it is.
JesusChristLover420@lemmy.sdf.org 1 month ago
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yogurtwrong@lemmy.world 1 month ago
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Agent641@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Holy shit… You can have domains that end in .dog?
pieland@piefed.social 1 month ago
and .pizza, .gay
there are lots of fun ones
borari@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
You can have domains that end in even more stuff if you switch to an alternative dns root like opennic.org.
pieland@piefed.social 1 month ago
this is so interesting. thanks for sharing!