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• essell@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I can make financial security happen by my own efforts.

  True Love has been more elusive because it’s one order of magnitude more complicated!

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  • cliffracer_cloaka@piefed.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    You can’t. Nobody is self made.

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    • essell@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I have the empirical and theoretical evidence to prove that wrong.

      Everybody is self made, not everyone will admit it or recognise it.

      Off all the factors that govern our lives, from the circumstances of our birth, to random chance and our daily routines… Nothing in our lives has a bigger impact on who we are as a person than the choices we make.

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      • cliffracer_cloaka@piefed.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        You’re much more a result than you are a factor, and you’re nothing on your own. Your disagreement is universal proof. Astounding huh?

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• cliffracer_cloaka@piefed.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Not in this case. None of the others are available once you choose. Hypotheticals are not for everyone.

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