Comment on How do you objectively tell if a parents "I love you" is actually sincere, if they actually care about you? Or if the words are lies and they don't actually care?

gigachad@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

• SlothMama@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  I don’t agree with your premise, love languages are real, and some people, like me, what are called words of affirmation are very important and receiving them feels like receiving love, and when people don’t speak the same love language, an act significant to the giver may not be received and felt as significant by the receiver

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  • Kornblumenratte@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    @gigachad@sh.itjust.works has a point, though. I agree with you that love is expressed by words, but I also agree with them that words alone are meaningless if not backed by loving behaviour.

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  • Steve@communick.news ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Yah. But you realize that someone could simply lie to you right?

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    • deadcream@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      My love language is gaslighting my partner 🥰🥰

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  • TeamAssimilation@infosec.pub ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    May be both, but universally, actions speak louder than words.

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