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Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 1 day agolots of women are into big trucks and expensive cars.
There’s always exceptions to the rule, but the things dudes think attract women and what actually attracts women are so often two entirely different things. Most women have little interest in expensive cars, huge muscles or fancy gadgets, they’re instead interested in a man with decent hygiene who can listen and be financially stable (all things that a lifted pickup with extra-edgy stickers and whatnot communicates the opposite of)
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 19 hours ago
in my dating experience most women car very much about how much money a man flaunts.
Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 55 minutes ago
So funnily enough a majority of my friends are feminine-presenting and several of them are single so I hear a lot about their experiences with dating guys and almost universally their primary concerns are hygiene and listening abilities (and past that concerns for their ability to budget and be financially stable), because that’s how low the bar is for men.
Given how consistently the only people I ever see saying that women like big trucks/expensive cars happen to be men, and every women/feminine presenting person I know never even mentions vehicle choice when talking about what they do or don’t like in a potential partner, plus the memes posted by women consistently matching this opinion, I have to believe that that’s the case.
How are you meeting these dates who scoff at your sound financial decisions? What are your filters for a potential date? I strongly suspect you may be inadvertently filtering your dates either by where you meet them or expecting certain characteristics (or potentially you might be doing something that scares away non-gold diggers) so that most of who you date happen to be overly veign
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 19 minutes ago
women who approach me and flirt with me who are single.
i also get women who approach and flirt who aren’t single. same shit.
every woman i’ve ever dated says she doesn’t care about these things and is lookign for a guy to listen to her… and then all they do is complain i don’t spend enough money on them or own expensive enough stuff.