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MeatPilot@lemmy.world āØ1ā© āØweekā© ago
If your life is boring, itās because you are living in a manner that isnāt enjoyable to you. Quit your shitty job and find a better one. Move to a different area if your current area itās not pleasurable to you.
That line shows a lack of experience. I find happy moments in life, but itās certainly not all sunshine and rainbows. Iām currently living my life for the betterment of my family, to provide for them. I have to work a job I hate and I given up most of my free time for them. Do I hate them for it, absolutely not. Do I struggle mentally because of it, certainly.
I canāt move because I canāt afford to find a home where I can move my family to. My mom lives with us, which makes it more complicated.
I canāt switch jobs, because Iād have to take almost a 25% to 50% cut in pay to do what āI wantā which seems selfish to make others adjust for. I stick with it and keep it mentally as a thing I have to do to provide for others.
I question this every now and than and my own well being is less than those around me. Sucks a lot, I make the best of it. Let me be clinical about life itās one outlet I have left, I keep myself going by taking my suffering and alternating it into a form of dark humor to lessen the blow of reality.
If you are able to do whatever you want when you want I envy your youth or your solidarity. Youāve obviously not had to make a sacrifice yet or you have been very fortunate. Donāt punch down at people who canāt make those choices.