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MeatPilot@lemmy.world âš2â© âšmonthsâ© ago
If your life is boring, itâs because you are living in a manner that isnât enjoyable to you. Quit your shitty job and find a better one. Move to a different area if your current area itâs not pleasurable to you.
That line shows a lack of experience. I find happy moments in life, but itâs certainly not all sunshine and rainbows. Iâm currently living my life for the betterment of my family, to provide for them. I have to work a job I hate and I given up most of my free time for them. Do I hate them for it, absolutely not. Do I struggle mentally because of it, certainly.
I canât move because I canât afford to find a home where I can move my family to. My mom lives with us, which makes it more complicated.
I canât switch jobs, because Iâd have to take almost a 25% to 50% cut in pay to do what âI wantâ which seems selfish to make others adjust for. I stick with it and keep it mentally as a thing I have to do to provide for others.
I question this every now and than and my own well being is less than those around me. Sucks a lot, I make the best of it. Let me be clinical about life itâs one outlet I have left, I keep myself going by taking my suffering and alternating it into a form of dark humor to lessen the blow of reality.
If you are able to do whatever you want when you want I envy your youth or your solidarity. Youâve obviously not had to make a sacrifice yet or you have been very fortunate. Donât punch down at people who canât make those choices.