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SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 6 days agoWhat are you on about?
I just don’t think it’s healthy to assume every man is a psycho and then make them prove it, especially if you want to try dating them.
Luckily, I’m a married lesbian so i don’t have to deal with this stupid shit.
Alaknar@sopuli.xyz 6 days ago
It’s a bit difficult to determine just from online interactions, don’t you think?
“Dating” doesn’t mean what it used to mean. These days “dating” means “I swiped right, we talked for an hour or two and now we’re meeting for the first time”.
As long as the other person is upfront about it, I wouldn’t be weirded out if they brought a friend to feel better, honestly, no fucking clue who would have an issue with that. Because it’s not about “all men”, it’s about “I’m meeting a stranger”.
If you’re the person who sees that situation as an attack, you’re better off leaving the other party alone.
SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 5 days ago
Nah it’s better if people who want to date act like adults.
There are some men who don’t mind being profiled, but being treated like a predator by default in a safe setting is insulting.
HarneyToker@lemmy.world 6 days ago
I mean, that’s sure one way. I have never used a dating app, been on plenty of dates, and am in my 20’s.