Comment on What's your test for people?
tiramichu@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks agoIt says the word ‘test’ in the post title, but if it helps I don’t think you need to take it so literally.
This isn’t “setting up” specific situations for people, but more like how people respond in normal everyday situations which you might consider to be either red flag or green flag behaviour.
usernamefactory@lemmy.ca 3 weeks ago
Yeah, what you’re saying makes sense. I like “bad personality indicator” as an alternative, since it conveys to me it’s one of many indicators you might process, maybe not even consciously. I’ve just had rather negative experiences being “tested” and hearing that world applied to any kind of casual social interaction gets my hackles all the way up.