It’s charming to call some new communication style ‘non-violent’, as if it’s the first.

I learned to update in quick language in the army. I learned to argue a point in New Jersey.

In NJ, when I worked there, the staff of geniuses were incredibly passionate about doing a thing the best and right way. Sometimes the best route to achieving that wasn’t obvious ans a discussion would ensue. These would be obvious verbal heroism by the nerds in residence, but they only never argued the facts and the options; never the people.

It was effective and only sometimes needed a decision from above, and when everyone was done they didn’t hate each other.

I just don’t see where “I feel …” isn’t just slowing us down when time is short. But, if your environment has a surplus of time, then I hope you’ll see benefit from this idea.