Incredibly toxic post btw.
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CheesyFox@lemmy.sdf.org 3 days agoi’m just tired of internet toxicity tbh. Not as in “Oh no, they laugh about Kirk’s assasination”, mind you, that shit is actually hillarious, neither i care about anyone’s political oriantation as long as they’re a decent human being. I’m talking about this unprompted toxic bullshit like “oh, they’re using this site, they must be a jerk!”. That’s literally the same rhetoric that politicians use to create “us vs them” narrative, except they do it on another basis like nationality or whatever.
Did your day go so wrong that you need to let it all out somehow, but this is the only way you found? Genuinely asking btw
AlexanderTheDead@lemmy.world 3 days ago
ook@discuss.tchncs.de 3 days ago
You tired of internet toxicity yet defend the archetype of toxic masculinity with this greentext. Is everyone upvoting this a Tate fan?
CheesyFox@lemmy.sdf.org 3 days ago
I’m not defending anyone. This story being made up is entirely possible. What I’m bothered by, and what i don’t want to let slide is the fact that people just assume malice from a person simply because they made a post on a certain website and not the on the other one around. It’s a scary tendency that, if extrapolated, makes internet into a place full of tribalism and hostility.
Also, you gotta explain to me, how the post is an example of toxic masculinity, and exactly what archetype do i defend from your point of view.
ook@discuss.tchncs.de 3 days ago
“She fucked too many guys” as if this is a competition or there is an amount of guys that is ok and a threshold where it is not ok. Likreshe owes him not to have sex at all somehow. Most of the rest sounds sane but just throwing that in out of nowhere shows this guy’s toxic masculinity.
CheesyFox@lemmy.sdf.org 3 days ago
when you put it like this, it does sound fucked up. In the context of the post tho, percieved it more like the anon is telling that she’s so uninterested in him that during all the time they known each other, she found a dozen of other sexual / romantic partners, without ever considering him as one, despite knowing he was into her, conciously manupulating him into staying, to keep him as a last resort.
Surely, it wasn’t put in words form in the nicest way possible, and if your interpretation is correct, he’s far from a decent human being, but i can’t say i have a much better impression about the girl in question either.
CheesyFox@lemmy.sdf.org 3 days ago
btw, just so you know, thanks to some particulrily heated instances over here, i’ve seen people with opinion just like yours but about the fediverse.
AlexanderTheDead@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Let’s not act like 4chan has ever been anything but a infamous shithole that attracts shitheads. It has the worst possible reputation: it doesn’t attract good people. Sorry. You sound delightful, tho, all your pettiness and pretentiousness aside.
CheesyFox@lemmy.sdf.org 3 days ago
so? Is this enough of a reason to spread it further? “Shitheads” aren’t exclusive to 4chan, and you’re microscopically close to being the live demonstration of this fect.
I asked you if anything is wrong, because unlike you i don’t want to fall into attribution bias and call someone a bad person simply because they behave like a jerk, everyone has bad days. Yet, you insist on keeying your way of thought, which is actually shitty and loathsome.
I hope you exert this behaviour because you’re just a spoiled edgy child, and not because you’re so utterly fucked up by life that you actually became this hateful and bitter.
please don’t be like this and take care <3
AlexanderTheDead@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Just remembered I can block people :) have fun spreading positivity! I’m sure sometimes you actually do that.
AlexanderTheDead@lemmy.world 3 days ago
I just don’t even know what to say to you. Do you understand that you are being the shithead? You’re actively insulting me while all I’m pointing out is that incel-adjacent language being used in a notorious incel/extremist breeding ground is highly suspect? Jesus. Reread your post and realize that you are massively projecting onto me.