Comment on Did I used to be homophobic? Am I?
SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 2 days ago
If you still feel a visceral reaction to two adults of any kind being intimate, then i feel like that is some residual homophobia.
It sounds like you want to be a good person, so that’s what is most important.
That being said, if you want to get over your biases against homosexual women, i would suggest exposure therapy or talking with a real therapist.
This kind of conditioning is hard to undo.
shalafi@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Sorry, that’s plain wrong. No one gets a choice as to what attracts or repels them.
SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 1 day ago
What a repulsive thing to think.
Go to therapy.
shalafi@lemmy.world 1 day ago
OK. I’ll ask you what I ask homophobes.
Tell me about the time when, as a teen, you choose who and what to be attracted to. Whatever your sexual needs and foibles, when and how did you choose them? What about things that turn you off? That was also a decision!
You sound exactly like a homophobe. “They made that choice!”