>It’s not just about getting laid (though that’s part of it.) >It’s also about friends >But even in the “getting laid” part, it’s moreso about a real emotional connection in conjunction with the sex, I believe they’re called “relationships.” >while some is just incels, it’s also normal people >If we had more Third Spaces that aren’t centered around booze and money, it’d go a long way to helping the issue >it’s not just men.