It’s society putting sex on pedestal. I agree when I did the deed for the first time, I feel it is overrated. Sorry if i might slight someone here, but from my observation, it is kind of the shallower folks who put too much value on sex.
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Jhuskindle@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I was 27 when i did the deed for the first time. It was very overrated. I’m almost 40 now. Ive been married, tried a few partners, it just didn’t matter. But before 27 I thought I must be missing out and got sad over it. Nah man it’s really nbd.
TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
jumbodumbo@lemmynsfw.com 3 weeks ago
It’s because you had sex with your popo instead of with your peepee
BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 3 weeks ago
Ty, almost forgot where we were
festnt@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
makes sense for someone from @lemmynsfw.com to say that lol
Jhuskindle@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Lol well I’ve tried a bit of everything thinking. Perhaps it was just the (lover/style/gender) that was making it “good but not stellar” like I can name a lot of other things I’d rather do. Id not be opposed to it if I had a partner who wanted to do this and I had time…
frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
It’s not a big deal, except that now you know it’s not a big deal. When people are hung up about it, releasing that can be a help.