Interesting. I’m not sure if that really answers my question. That is you saying it’s their fault for being lonely, yes? And yes, I agree, we men should definitely educate ourselves and better ourselves wherever possible. But would that mean that there’s no systemic issue and it’s “just” men being dumb?
Comment on what are the grievances with the "male loneliness epidemic"?
bacon_pdp@lemmy.world 1 week ago
I would more empathy for lonely men if every one of them that I met didn’t have massive red flags in their attitude and/or behavior towards women.
Like seriously, a 57 year old man wants a woman to have kids with but thinks a 52 year old woman who wants kids wouldn’t have any by then…
Mighty@lemmy.world 1 week ago
bacon_pdp@lemmy.world 1 week ago
I can’t speak to men’s systemic issues as I am not a man.
But if you pay a matchmaker to find a woman who is compatible with you and your desires; realize that me telling you these things are deal breakers for the type of women that you want and you need to either address them or expand your definition of what you will accept because here are women different than what you expressed desire for who might not have an issue with the previously mentioned deal breakers.
For the guys who know that and stop demanding the 18 year old super model with the porn star sex drive, an intact hymen and a desire to have kids; they can find someone who is compatible.
(Not that there isn’t a subset of women with a very similar problem themselves)
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 1 week ago
so by the same logic that you judge all these lonely men are at fault for being lonely, it’s your fault for consistently seeking out the ones with massive red flags.
bacon_pdp@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Well as I am trying to work as a matchmaker, that is the sort of people who are willing to pay me to find them a partner who is compatible.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
Remind me never to employ your services lol, your “I’m better than you losers” attitude cannot make you effective at matchmaking.