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lowered_lifted@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

I would just try to go to study the kind of woman who would listen to your dad like that? It seems weird lol. Try to befriend her

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just1earthling@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
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- blarghly@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  Then do that. Like, you can see the solution. It’s right there. Just be more charming and charismatic and confident. Will it take time and effort and embarassment? Yes. But then you come out the other side a better person. And also, you’ll have a girlfriend.
  
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- dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  getting a girlfriend isn’t about being dominant, even if being charismatic usually would be helpful, it’s also not required
  
  you shouldn’t feel pressured to get a girlfriend unless you want one, and you certainly shouldn’t be pushed into a relationship on someone else’s terms
  
  I don’t think you should feel embarrassed, but I would understand if you felt angry - your autonomy is being violated, and ironically your dad is only enabling and promoting the behavior he seems to be judging you for. Either way, I’m sorry you were put in this situation, you shouldn’t have to deal with this.
  
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