Break the cycle,if you’d like to, and go /c/childfree @lemmy.world (community reoated links also at chiclddree.cc.).✨
Comment on Circle of life
user224@lemmy.sdf.org 8 months ago
I can stop this. I can just never have kids.
pg_sax_i_frage@lemmy.wtf 8 months ago
768@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Yes, but that alone won’t heal someone’s trauma.
Todesschnitzel@lemm.ee 8 months ago
It will heal in death. Our deaths. And then no one will be traumatised ever again! Because no more humans exist! The system is perfect!
STRIKINGdebate2@lemmy.world 8 months ago
It’s a pretty miserable existence when we focus only on the negative.
Todesschnitzel@lemm.ee 8 months ago
Death doesn’t have to be negative. Just imagine going out guns blazing as flames erupt all around you, or going to sleep never to wake up again, peaceful. Because it is only natural to die one day. You don’t have to run from it. Just embrace it and make the best out of it.
768@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Death is a trauma, I’d argue. Also we evolve in more complex ways than just genetically, since we have the ability to spread and store information among and over generations.
gandalf_der_12te@feddit.de 8 months ago
I’m not so sure about this. If you die and you leave debt, someone makes a loss. Now in the abstract case of monetary debt, that may not be a problem. But there is also an emotional debt. It is not healthy to carry that to one’s grave, I beliefe. Scars must be properly healed instead of ignored, ideally within one’s lifetime.
pinkdrunkenelephants@lemmy.cafe 8 months ago
🤔🤔🤔 Debatable. And the fact that it is makes me sad, because I want to believe what you’re saying is true.
Todesschnitzel@lemm.ee 8 months ago
Death is inevitable. It has to happen at some point. Thus you should settle your affairs in due time. But that is up to you. And has little to do with my point does it?