Comment on Is it safe to assume the guy i went out on a date with, just wants to sleep with me?
Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org 3 days agohe told me that he handles his parent’s real estate company and is quite rich
He’s paying for every date even when I offer to split
Maybe he just doesn’t want you to worry about where you go/what you order/how often you can meet him for financial reasons. I mean it’s possible that he wouldn’t say no if it came to it. Nothing wrong with that per se. But from what you said I don’t think it’s all he cares about.
arumi@endlesstalk.org 3 days ago
I hope what you’re saying is true
Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org 3 days ago
I mean it’s not like you’re leading him on and you clearly said you’re not looking to date. Just go with the flow - I’m sure it’ll be fine no matter what ☺️
arumi@endlesstalk.org 3 days ago
Thank you
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TheDoozer@lemmy.world 3 days ago
In college I had a guy friend (I’m a guy, both of us straight) who I’d regularly go to breakfast with, and he always paid because I was very poor, he made plenty, and he wanted company for breakfast. I regularly tried to pay and he waved me off. I think he knew that if we went back and forth, we’d go to breakfast a lot less because I wouldn’t be able to afford it.
Maybe that’s what’s going on here.
thermal_shock@lemmy.world 3 days ago
You’re the only one who can find out. Also, sex is not a bad thing, it’s enjoyable, especially if you’re attracted to him. You don’t have to marry him, but enjoy yourself also.
arumi@endlesstalk.org 3 days ago
I want to lose my virginity to a long term partner. I maybe attracted to him but i am not going to lose it in a one night stand
thermal_shock@lemmy.world 2 days ago
I didn’t see you were a virgin.