I’m fairly sure that only people that use Lemmy are: communist trans women that are Linux aficionados. They may or may have also dabbled in being a femboy and being a furry.

Joking aside, it’s time to get serious.

Dear Men,

If you a man who understands why women need to feel space. This comment isn’t for you. Feel free to upvote me and downvote all my enemies.

When women (cis and trans) don’t feel safe they leave spaces. This also applies to men too. No one wants to be somewhere were they don’t feel safe. When a bunch of women leave that means the ratio of men to women goes higher until critical mass of all men and no women. When that happens, we have what is called a "sausage party". Now some men would love a sausage party. Ask yourself, do you want a sausage party?

If no, stop getting your balls in a twist. WomensStuff is not hurting anyone, they’re not going out brigarding or harassing or picking fights with other people. All users of WomensStuff want is a place where they can get together and talk about things that matter to them. If women feel safe on Lemmy, you don’t get a sausage party. There is also the risk of scaring off all the wonderful original women content creators of Lemmy NSFW. The fact is women are awesome and there should be more of them.

Now, if you want a sausage party and recognizance that women are people who deserve to feel safe. You can create your own sausage party community. You do you.

Now, if you want don’t want/want sausage party and are toxic asshole. Go start your own instance, where you all can circle jerk each other while complaining why women don’t want to be around you. Hopefully, one day you’ll come to the realization the reason why women don’t want to be around you is because your asshole. With that realization you’ll come to the conclusion that women want to feel safe in a world that doesn’t allow them that freedom.

Cause at the end of the day, WomensStuff **DOES NOT AFFECT YOUR LIFE IN ANY MEANINGFUL WAY. ** Go be angry at the slow stripping of rights of anyone who isn’t a white male. Or how major countries are taking their sweet ass time to recognizance the Israel is committing genocide. Or that the rich keep getting richer while the rest of us worse off each year. Or how global climate change is going to end us as a species. If you have the time and energy to get mad at small community on Lemmy, you’re life is fucking easy.

Sincerely,

Me