Comment on I can fix her
4grams@awful.systems 6 days ago
Lol, this literally happened to me once.
Long story short, a girl I knew but always figured was way out of my league expressed interest in me. We quickly started dating, I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world. A few weeks go by and she just ghosts me. Nothing for weeks, I was going nuts. Finally I get a message from her, she had checked herself into the psych ward, and wound up hooking up with one of the staff while she was there.
Dodged a real one there…
AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 6 days ago
Hooking up with one of the staff? Yikes
I don’t deny that you may have dodged a bullet, but I feel like the staff of a psych ward hooking up with patients is hella fucked up. Even if both people are adults, I think consent in that context is pretty dubious.
4grams@awful.systems 6 days ago
wholeheartedly agree. I was but 19 years old though and less wise in the ways of the world. I occasionally try to look her up but have had no luck, I really hope she turned out ok. Been decades though.
boboliosisjones@feddit.nu 6 days ago
From what I heard its super common for psych ward staff to be doing patients. And yeah it can’t be very helpful in their situation…