I’ve had that exact reaction many times at BDSM events. (Technically, that first comma needs to move one word to the left.)
Comment on is homophobia associated with homosexual arousal
sundray@lemmus.org 19 hours ago“Two dudes fuckin’, cool. Not my thing, but it looks like they’re having a good time and that’s awesome.”
MagicShel@lemmy.zip 18 hours ago
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 14 hours ago
it’s also entirely possible to find people handsome and attractive, but not be attracted to them an iota.
i’m into femboys and stuff but masculinity has 0 appeal to me, but i still very much think guys like henry cavill (especially with a beard) are visually appealing.