Comment on Does people doing things that upset others also upset you?

• over_clox@lemmy.world ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Even though the woman proved to be a Karen, the cashiers working the store that day totally understood why I was upset. If only they had or enacted a policy of don’t consume any products in the store…

  As far as the dog on the lease thing, we’re about 99% in favor of that, only exception being when we take our dog out to our city park, where we adopted him from as abandoned.

  Brownie knows every inch of the park and I feel it would be wrong to not let him roam free occasionally when there’s not many people or other animals around. Those sort of days are few and far between though, so 99% of the time he’s on the leash.

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  • boletus@sh.itjust.works ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    If it’s an off leash park it’s fine. If it’s on lead have them on lead. It isn’t about your dog it’s about everyone else’s dogs. Dogs on leash are significantly more reactive when another dog runs up to them, so it’s important to have control of the dog, lest one of the dogs gets badly hurt.

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    • over_clox@lemmy.world ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Our park is mostly a water park for kids at the front, with a couple pavilions, and a boat ramp and senior citizen center in the back. So yes, it’s not an official dog park, but unofficial its accepted as one by pretty much everyone.

      We keep him on the leash when there’s lots of people or other dogs around, but on days when the park is practically empty, we let him roam free and burn his calories.

      He was abandoned for like 5 months out at the park before we decided to adopt him, so most regular park visitors already know him. Police officers approve, they even helped us adopt him.

      He’s a medium size dog, and mostly chill, just sometimes playful. He’s never hurt anyone.

      Of course that’s not true for all dogs though, hence why we’re very careful regarding what sort of days we might let him roam around off the leash.

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      • boletus@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Fair enough, as long as there’s respect to other dogs and dog owners. Many dog owners near where I live who selfilishly let their dogs off lead in busy on lead areas and obviously causes problems.

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  • gon@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    IDK, frankly I’m just straight up a dog hater. That’s why I posed a hypothetical. With dogs, I just really can’t stand them… Aren’t there like, dog parks or something, where the whole point is that they get to roam free without bothering people? Maybe that’s not available where you are. Maybe you’re really reasonable with when you do it.

    I don’t know… I really find it hard to keep my [strong dislike] out of my thoughts here!

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