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there is nothing positive about having less autonomy and nothing about being a sub that requires it

correct, fetishes aren’t often rational, there is no logical reason for this person to want to be a helpless little goblin other than it turns them on

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Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
There are plenty of things that turn people on that are objectively harmful and/or counterproductive and should be discouraged, in the grand scheme of things this isn’t one of the worst but that doesn’t make it good, some urges absolutely should be suppressed or at least redirected

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- abbotsbury@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  
  There are plenty of things that turn people on that are objectively harmful and/or counterproductive and should be discouraged
  
  Not the parameters of the discussion at all
  
  some urges absolutely should be suppressed or at least redirected
  
  Sure, but extremely vanilla “uwu I want big man to help me” is nowhere close to that threshold.
  
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  - Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    Being helpless and dependent isn’t a good thing, doesn’t matter how vanilla you feel it is
    
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    abbotsbury@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    good thing its sexual roleplaying and not a lifestyle decision
    
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