Comment on renewing my country's ID card for when i visit this summer

• abbotsbury@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  there is nothing positive about having less autonomy and nothing about being a sub that requires it

  correct, fetishes aren’t often rational, there is no logical reason for this person to want to be a helpless little goblin other than it turns them on

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  • Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    There are plenty of things that turn people on that are objectively harmful and/or counterproductive and should be discouraged, in the grand scheme of things this isn’t one of the worst but that doesn’t make it good, some urges absolutely should be suppressed or at least redirected

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    • abbotsbury@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      There are plenty of things that turn people on that are objectively harmful and/or counterproductive and should be discouraged

      Not the parameters of the discussion at all

      some urges absolutely should be suppressed or at least redirected

      Sure, but extremely vanilla “uwu I want big man to help me” is nowhere close to that threshold.

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      • Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Being helpless and dependent isn’t a good thing, doesn’t matter how vanilla you feel it is

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