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You can be taken care of without choosing to be less able and less independent, there is nothing positive about having less autonomy and nothing about being a sub that requires it

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abbotsbury@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

there is nothing positive about having less autonomy and nothing about being a sub that requires it

correct, fetishes aren’t often rational, there is no logical reason for this person to want to be a helpless little goblin other than it turns them on

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- Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  There are plenty of things that turn people on that are objectively harmful and/or counterproductive and should be discouraged, in the grand scheme of things this isn’t one of the worst but that doesn’t make it good, some urges absolutely should be suppressed or at least redirected
  
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  - abbotsbury@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    
    There are plenty of things that turn people on that are objectively harmful and/or counterproductive and should be discouraged
    
    Not the parameters of the discussion at all
    
    some urges absolutely should be suppressed or at least redirected
    
    Sure, but extremely vanilla “uwu I want big man to help me” is nowhere close to that threshold.
    
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    Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    Being helpless and dependent isn’t a good thing, doesn’t matter how vanilla you feel it is
    
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