No, you’re not, you cheated that’s the most fundamental thing not to do, that’s like saying “I’m a great cook, I would argue better than the majority of cooks, I only put rat poison in my food once!”, would you eat in the same restaurant where a cook intentionally put rat poison in your food once already?
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IloveyouMF@lemmy.world 1 week agoI am not a drug user anymore
Second I am a great girlfriend and I would argue better then the majority of girlfriends.
Nibodhika@lemmy.world 1 week ago
mycatscool@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Okay, good for you…
But just because you gave up drugs doesn’t change what you did. We all own our mistakes for the rest of our lives.
People don’t owe you trust or respect if you break those things. Maybe you can build those things up again with the other people in his life but that takes time.