Comment on Why do people especially men care if someone forgives a cheating partner
mycatscool@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Yeah, can’t believe all his friends don’t want him to get back with a cheating drug addict.
People are capable of change, sure, but after showing a pattern of behaviour where you show getting off with someone other than your partner is more important to you than the respect you have for your partner and maintaining that relationship, why should anyone involved trust or care about what you have to say on the matter?
And from all your responses here, it seems like you are really trying to justify cheating and are giving excuses to treating your partner like shit.
Take some responsibility, own your mistakes, and try to be a better person, not get angry at people for what YOU did to YOUR partner.
IloveyouMF@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
I am not a drug user anymore
Second I am a great girlfriend and I would argue better then the majority of girlfriends.
mycatscool@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Okay, good for you…
But just because you gave up drugs doesn’t change what you did. We all own our mistakes for the rest of our lives.
People don’t owe you trust or respect if you break those things. Maybe you can build those things up again with the other people in his life but that takes time.
Nibodhika@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
No, you’re not, you cheated that’s the most fundamental thing not to do, that’s like saying “I’m a great cook, I would argue better than the majority of cooks, I only put rat poison in my food once!”, would you eat in the same restaurant where a cook intentionally put rat poison in your food once already?