A lot of people used to be miserable in families and relationships. Now they can be miserable alone.
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SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 weeks ago
The saddest takeaway here for me is that we’ve created such a cruel, heartless world for humans that people feel so little love from other humans. There’s literally billions of us, and these people are left wanting.
The better question should probably be: Why are humans so broken and why aren’t we doing more to fix that instead of making “perfect” companions for them that actually seem to care about their well-being?
HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 4 weeks ago
Zaleramancer@beehaw.org 4 weeks ago
Your empathy is in a good place, but the problem isn’t how humans are broken, it’s what is breaking them.
Western society* is built in a really dumb and alienating way. Humans are reduced to a labor commodity, places where people can mingle socially are being commercialized out of existence, the internet has evolved into a machine that actively profits from outrage and alienation, our governmental institutions are primarily driven by forces no regular person has any power over and we can’t even feel pride in our work because it’s profitable to convince us that we are replaceable and disposable.
Where’s the social incentive to connect to other people? The powers that be benefit from a disorganized and isolated population, so they will do nothing to change that. Market incentives mean that media which focused on things that provoke fear, rage and anxiety are more profitable than ones that promote community, happiness or hope.
It’s permeated so deeply into our culture that some older kids movies seem completely insane now. Like, think about ET and consider how wild it would be nowadays for you to just let your children vanish for hours doing whatever and wandering around wherever.
The fear and anxiety determines our actions, and there are multiple incentives on a macro-social level for that to continue.
Hell, I have watched this happen in real time during my 10+ year time on the web, where the communities of excited weirdos sharing their thoughts and feelings have been so thoroughly dominated by this that it is hard to engage with any social media without someone shoving a headline into your face that is intended to upset you.
On Tumblr, for example, the trend was so strong that the idea that you weren’t constantly upset was a sign of being a bad person. You know, on the Superwholock site? Yeah, the one that wanted to fuck the Onceler.
If you want to reverse this trend, it’s going to require changing how our political, economic and media environments act by changing their incentives. Otherwise, any change will be superficial and fail to produce meaningful results.
It’s pretty depressing, but that’s the situation as I see it.
*I’m not qualified to comment on other cultural spheres.