Comment on Is flirting redundant?
Spacehooks@reddthat.com 1 day ago
I didn’t flirt with my partner at all and kept my emotions in. so we didn’t get together until like 8 months of friendship. my SO had 0 idea I had any interest until we had a moment. It overwhelmed SO and led to wanting space between us for a few months. I wonder if it would have been different if I flirted some.
FatTony@lemm.ee 1 day ago
But your SO did like you in all that time?
Spacehooks@reddthat.com 1 day ago
Lol i just asked and got the standard “oh, I dk” in the cheekist voice possible.
My memory of the situation was no. I was hard friend zoned and my partner has always had zero interest in me physically. Before me i know there was zero interest in anyone beyond standard friendship. That dice roll i did to grab a kiss when I did change both our lives.
FatTony@lemm.ee 23 hours ago
Cute.