I think that comes down to individualpreferences, to be honest. Some people, yeah, want the whole kit and kaboodle of stability before anything jorizontal takes place. Others just want to establish an emotional relationship beforehand, while others are just fine jumping in straight from the go, so to speak. And I genuinely think every variant is fine, we just have to take people at their word and respect their desires as much as possible, sometimes by letting eachother go.