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Comment on Why do people care so much that their friend or family member’s partner is attractive and not just loving?

I mean, did they talk about how he wasnt conventionally attractive or did they care about it?

Are they saying, “old ugly bob is coming by for dinner tonight, make sure to put out an extra setting”, or are they saying “don’t date bob because he’s old and ugly”?

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relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
“Ew, he’s ugly/He’s ugly, you can do better.”

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- masterspace@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  Like, my blunt uncle might make a joke about a boyfriend being ugly and cracking a mirror or something, but he would never, ever, say something like ‘you can do better’ or ‘ew’.
  
  There’s a line between being open and honest about someone’s attractiveness, and being cruel and a bad judge of character.
  
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- masterspace@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  Yeah, those sound like crappy people that you’re talking to.
  
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- partial_accumen@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  These people you are talk to are shallow and immature. As far as those people you have to choose from to talk to, you can do better.
  
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