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codexarcanum@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

“Hello ${Woman’s Name}. Would you like to join me for dinner on ${Select free date} at ${Restaurant with 3 or 4 dollar signs for price on Yelp}? I also have a second ticket for ${Popular sold out show at theater} if you’d like to join me?”

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peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
Ok see, THAT makes sense.

Also helps that I don’t look at prices anyway(not that that behavior is a good thing, I still need to budget for disposable income) unless something looks stupid, like a $200 steak (There is a place here with a $70 steak, I’m tempted to try it one day).

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- Draces@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  Yeah I would definitely not talk like that to anyone you’re interested in. You have all the subtlety of a bull in a china shop. Don’t be this guy
  
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  - peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    I didn’t interpret what he said to be a script I should use. It was more of “don’t be afraid of actually using disposable income.”
    
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    Draces@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    
    how the hell would I say I make $150k/yr
    
    There is a place here with a $70 steak, I’m tempted to try it one day
    
    That’s a good point, but it’s still 2.5x the median income for the area I live.
    
    These are red flags that will ruin your chances and if you are acting differently towards women, stop acting and just stop trying to humble brag about your income. It’s a lot easier to not try to trick people
    
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