how the hell would I say I make $150k/yr

There is a place here with a $70 steak, I’m tempted to try it one day

That’s a good point, but it’s still 2.5x the median income for the area I live.

These are red flags that will ruin your chances and if you are acting differently towards women, stop acting and just stop trying to humble brag about your income. It’s a lot easier to not try to trick people