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Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 week ago“Hey, want to go to spoons later?” isn’t going to result in legal action.
Comment on Anon is worried about men
Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 1 week ago“Hey, want to go to spoons later?” isn’t going to result in legal action.
rekabis@lemmy.ca 1 week ago
But making an unsolicited approach, and wholly lacking the experience and social expertise to recognize that the women wanted nothing to do with you, and is actually embarrassed by your presence, confers a non-trivial and very real risk of police presence.
And that is while also being wholly non-threatening and totally harmless. Absolutely oblivious to social conditions, sure, but also absolutely not a danger and receptive to clear and unambiguous language – which was never provided until the cops provided it for her.
Yes, actually saw this happen IRL. Poor dude was absolutely mortified, which likely made him think thrice of ever making another unsolicited approach and definitely nerfing any possibility of becoming more experienced at interacting with women.