Comment on How can I decide on who and how to love?
bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 6 days ago
To the question in the title: No, you can’t. That’s actually a philosophical topic on free will. You can do what you want but you cannot will what you want.
You can gaslight yourself to some degree but that’s all.
As for the rest of your post:
mez@lemmy.world 6 days ago
Yeah it seems like we have no control over what we love until they give us a reason to not love them. Its weird
For women its much worse. They cannot stop themselves from acting in certain ways. Which I like
SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 6 days ago
Women are not a hivemind. They are individual people, with their own thoughts, hopes, dreams, feelings, and aspirations.
Maybe you should start by seeing women on an equal level as human beings, first and foremost.