I mentioned “non-creepy, non-prying” because I’ve been on the internet a lot and understand internet culture. Several things mentioned in your post give a distinct vibe of the type of person whose brain has been so overcooked by the internet that they have a tendency towards being creepy. I’m specifically talking about stuff like:
feel like liking someone is a need like taking a shit. if i give too much affection, would a girl get scared and run away, or fall in love with me? what do i do if i accidentally make a girl love me?
i don’t want girls to love me too much. how do i make them not love me too much and still be myself?
what do i do with the freedom and power to do whatever i want?
I am not autistic, mentally ill, ugly, or weird (I guess those last two are subjective). I have no diagnoses at all and have never been regularly medicated. I am happily married (June will be my 10 year reunion), with 2 kids. I also had previous relationships before meeting my (now) wife, so clearly I’m not so hideously unattractive or weird as to repel everyone.
Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Seriously, chill the fuck out. You lead with an insult, ask for advice, and when someone tries to offer some, you pick out this one phrase and turn it into whatever this is?
Why are you being so rude to someone trying to offer help that you asked for?