Comment on Anon judges books by their covers
Hikermick@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
We judge, it’s what we do. Anyone who says otherwise is lying
Comment on Anon judges books by their covers
Hikermick@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
We judge, it’s what we do. Anyone who says otherwise is lying
shalafi@lemmy.world 1 week ago
We evolved to live and work in groups of 150, max. Past that our brains get overwhelmed and fall back to pattern matching, another evolutionary trait, and a powerful one in us humans.
We’re so good at judging people that when someone’s behavior throws us for a loop, it’s a memorable event.
The only trick is making a conscious decision to stay the hell away from “all $people act like $X”. Even if I think a customer walking up is likely to be a chud, I greet them openly and friendly. Works out great.
vulgarcynic@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Dunbar’s Number for anyone interested in reading further on this theory.