Comment on would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?
forrgott@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
You should search for info on “love bombing”. This sounds suspiciously similar. Basically, it’s about emotional manipulation to get you to willingly look past red flags and other problems.
TheOctonaut@mander.xyz 3 weeks ago
I’m not sure this even counts because the guy basically said let’s be friends and she has leapt to thinking about getting back together. This just sounds like someone with issues of their own, if dating someone who is obviously unthinking but falls well within the predicted bounds of normal behaviour for a teenager makes them think they might be a lesbian.
drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
ah, he said “let’s be friends” but he wanted to get back together in the future and i was willing to do that, but obviously not now.