Comment on Hope they're into basements ***alot***.
argon@lemmy.today 6 days agoDo you use the term “realist” to mean “someone who focuses on arbitrary negative events to excuse their self-harming behavior of actively avoiding personal growth and progress”?
Shiggles@sh.itjust.works 6 days ago
LouNeko@lemmy.world 5 days ago
I think they mean somebody who realizes about them self that their inability to reliably put food on the table is probably not looked favorably upon in terms of a partner. The reason for that can be purely environmental or psychological but mostly a bit of both.