As I said with friends I’m more open. We’ve discussed kinks and stuff in detail, what we’re into etc.
But the line I draw is at announcing my current masturbation/having sex or whatever. They don’t need to know when I’m masturbating and I don’t need to know when they do either.
We have discussed the frequency with which we do it, and even who among each other we “would hit” so to say. But saying I jack off four times per week is different from saying “hey heads up, you’re in a different city but I want you to know I’m horny as fuck and gonna get some good porn to watch now. Maybe I’ll even think about you lol”
dabaldeagul@feddit.nl 2 months ago
As I said with friends I’m more open. We’ve discussed kinks and stuff in detail, what we’re into etc.
But the line I draw is at announcing my current masturbation/having sex or whatever. They don’t need to know when I’m masturbating and I don’t need to know when they do either.
We have discussed the frequency with which we do it, and even who among each other we “would hit” so to say. But saying I jack off four times per week is different from saying “hey heads up, you’re in a different city but I want you to know I’m horny as fuck and gonna get some good porn to watch now. Maybe I’ll even think about you lol”