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dabaldeagul@feddit.nl 23 hours agoNot OP but personally I wouldn’t necessarily need or want to know what my dad is getting off to and when. With close friends it’s different, we do have some fairly open conversations about what we (don’t) like, but we also do not announce to each other “hey btw, I’m gonna jack off now!!”
TurtleSoup@lemmy.zip 22 hours ago
Guess it just depends on the audience. When I was deployed and the power went out for 4 hours we (about a dozen of us) had a several hour long debate on who the most talented porn star was. For some that’s not a weird conversation, for others… Yea they probably think we’re insane.
dabaldeagul@feddit.nl 16 hours ago
As I said with friends I’m more open. We’ve discussed kinks and stuff in detail, what we’re into etc.
But the line I draw is at announcing my current masturbation/having sex or whatever. They don’t need to know when I’m masturbating and I don’t need to know when they do either.
We have discussed the frequency with which we do it, and even who among each other we “would hit” so to say. But saying I jack off four times per week is different from saying “hey heads up, you’re in a different city but I want you to know I’m horny as fuck and gonna get some good porn to watch now. Maybe I’ll even think about you lol”