Wait, the bases are numbered?
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idiomaddict@lemmy.world 1 day agoIt might also be aimed at (and hopefully made by) young people who are often very concerned with their sexuality, even before they have enough practical experience and /or self knowledge to know if they’re sexually attracted to anyone.
I didn’t recognize my first crush on a girl until over a decade later, because it was different from my crushes on boys. I thought I just admired her a lot. I had gotten to second base at least with half a dozen of my female friends before I thought I might be into girls (I was not especially self-aware). Hell, I lost my virginity to a girl and didn’t realize it until years later. I could see this being a list for people like me, who are somehow missing the obvious.
zea_64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
idiomaddict@lemmy.world 1 day ago
We went by the four Fs: French, feel, finger, fuck. Fellatio would fit right in, but we didn’t really use it and counted that as base 3.5.
Which is why I didn’t initially realize I lost my virginity to a girl, because we just went to 3.5. I was talking to someone about it and they literally looked at me and were like “so gold star lesbians are just all virgins?” and I realized I was being an idiot.
ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 1 day ago
“And I only figured it out after my wife told me”
idiomaddict@lemmy.world 1 day ago
It’s just a practice marriage, so we don’t embarrass ourselves in front of our husbands later.