Wait, the bases are numbered?
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idiomaddict@lemmy.world 10 months agoIt might also be aimed at (and hopefully made by) young people who are often very concerned with their sexuality, even before they have enough practical experience and /or self knowledge to know if they’re sexually attracted to anyone.
I didn’t recognize my first crush on a girl until over a decade later, because it was different from my crushes on boys. I thought I just admired her a lot. I had gotten to second base at least with half a dozen of my female friends before I thought I might be into girls (I was not especially self-aware). Hell, I lost my virginity to a girl and didn’t realize it until years later. I could see this being a list for people like me, who are somehow missing the obvious.
zea_64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 months ago
idiomaddict@lemmy.world 10 months ago
We went by the four Fs: French, feel, finger, fuck. Fellatio would fit right in, but we didn’t really use it and counted that as base 3.5.
Which is why I didn’t initially realize I lost my virginity to a girl, because we just went to 3.5. I was talking to someone about it and they literally looked at me and were like “so gold star lesbians are just all virgins?” and I realized I was being an idiot.
ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 10 months ago
“And I only figured it out after my wife told me”
idiomaddict@lemmy.world 10 months ago
It’s just a practice marriage, so we don’t embarrass ourselves in front of our husbands later.