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- Comment on How to treat a man 3 months ago:
Examples of how toxic masculinity and the patriarchy affects life presented in speech rather than a bullet point list. These terms are describing social structures and expectations. Not about hating individual men. The examples all are absolutely negative products of hegemonic masculinity. Look into sociological/gender studies/anthropology resources on the subject. I don’t have the bandwidth to try and give you a primer on these schools of study, but they readily exist.
- Comment on How to treat a man 3 months ago:
The DAILY DOUBLE! Woo.
Real talk. The effects of toxic masculinity are tangled up everywhere, in everything, crossing the blood-brain barrier like micro plastics. If you honestly think it don’t exist, it’s big sign to me that you are wrapped up in it to drowning. People shut down empathy as a trauma response, or because they’re trying to replicate behaviors of a perceived ‘in-group’ (this would be the patriarchy) to gain acceptance. Either way it’s got you. We’re talking a nationwide ban on healthcare based on gender for half the country, and you don’t see it? You don’t think having healthcare is pretty fucking foundational? Is it 1 in 3 women who live under a ban in America now? Having your leaders celebrated for sexual violence not cast down ain’t a sign to you? 'Grab ‘em by the pussy’ is running neck and neck for one of the most powerful executive positions in the world. We’re criminalizing men who wear feminine attire, policing who is woman enough to piss where. The right just fell over itself to mock a kid who was proud to tears of his father. God forbid a man express joy. I keep getting texts from friends floored over the photo of Walz getting bunny eared by his smiling kids. There’s a big reason why seeing them so completely unafraid to tease their father in public is resonating with people.
- Comment on How to treat a man 3 months ago:
I’d like to take ‘repression, and over-compensating’ for 500 Alex.
- Comment on How to treat a man 3 months ago:
I’m not going to argue which gender is the bigger victim of toxic masculinity. The bodies are stacked too high for me to see over. But please don’t say it impacts ‘much less than a percentage of 1%.’
Like, my father used to tie up my dog and whale on it with a belt when he was angry and that’s probably the least fucked-up-thing-your-dad-did story of my peer group. If you don’t think it’s affected you, you are either very lucky, or somebody who is long overdue to talk it out.
- Comment on How to treat a man 3 months ago:
I’ve been screamed at a lot for daring to sit at the short edge of a rectangular table while in the presence of a man. Does that count for father-daughter lessons? This thread is wild.
- Comment on Speculation Swirls About What Hit Trump. An Analysis Suggests It was a Bullet 4 months ago:
It’s just a play to keep it in the news cycle longer.
- Comment on why isn't anyone calling for Trump to drop out. 5 months ago:
Consolidation of US media. Billionaires will burn the world down rather than cede an inch, and it’s their narratives that get amplified.
- Comment on Google Is Paying Reddit $60 Million for Fucksmith to Tell Its Users to Eat Glue 6 months ago:
Bacon, pineapple, and jalapenos. Ambrosia my brother.
- Comment on It is apparently controversial 7 months ago:
They remember the stream where they spawned tho.
- Comment on Tired of Doomscrolling? Try Ringing a Doorbell for Fish. 8 months ago:
- Comment on The library where my wife works is having a Black Friday sale. 1 year ago:
In many places an overdue will automatically become lost after ~2 weeks - ~3 months. Then you’d be charged the cost of the item and sometimes a processing fee to cover the costs of preparing a replacement book. If you have a lost book, still bring it in, I would happily waive fees up until the point the replacement order was placed. Libraries generally just want the books back.
- Comment on What is the worst US state to live in generally? 1 year ago:
For please of mind just avoid Stefanik’s district, some people call it Cantucky for a reason. 🥲.
- Comment on What is the worst US state to live in generally? 1 year ago:
Ya’ll do make a lovely casserole.