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- Comment on Is there a more politically and ideologically diverse alternative for Lemmy? 4 weeks ago:
I just mind that memes get deleted for no apprent reason… sometimes they give a reson, most of the time, they don’t. I mean, come on, it’s a joke…
But whatever. If people here are happy with what they get out of stricter moderation, hey, who am I to judge.
- Comment on Is there a more politically and ideologically diverse alternative for Lemmy? 4 weeks ago:
It is possible they are young and searching themselves, yet to understand how the world and online discussions work.
Yes, that is what I meant when I said young.
- Comment on Is there a more politically and ideologically diverse alternative for Lemmy? 4 weeks ago:
lemmy.ml is not as nearly as bad now, lemmy.world on the other hand… I just stopped posting there.
- Comment on Is there a more politically and ideologically diverse alternative for Lemmy? 4 weeks ago:
I believe OP is young and just more into philosophy than politics… ot maybe a combo of both. I know a time when I was like that, so it’s perfectly normal.
But, unfortunately, yes, there are very few individuals out there that communicate on that level.
- Comment on Is there a more politically and ideologically diverse alternative for Lemmy? 4 weeks ago:
And if that eventually happens, other problems will follow.
I kinda like it the way it is. I also use Reddit, so that kinda balances things out I guess.
- Comment on acceptable screws 1 month ago:
Torx, yes, hex, no.
- Comment on if the bird flu started spreading between humans, how long would you need to stay quarantined before it was safe to come out?? 1 month ago:
Well, it wasn’t obvious to me.
- Comment on if the bird flu started spreading between humans, how long would you need to stay quarantined before it was safe to come out?? 1 month ago:
Some people do actually need to physically be at work… in fact, it’s how most work is done. Just because some are devs/IT workers and see no need to actually show up to work, that doesn’t mean the rest of the world keeps on turning without maintenance.
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- Comment on Lemmy Recently 1 month ago:
Ummm… I must’ve missed a lot after the jeans thing.
- Comment on Don't call before 9, my minutes aren't free 1 month ago:
Exactly! 😂
Or you just lay in bed at night and just try to properly edit the score notation to a song you really like, but it’s kinda niche, still all your friends know it, and then brag about it when you meet up “yo, check out my ringtone 😏” 😂.
- Comment on Don't call before 9, my minutes aren't free 1 month ago:
Meeh, it’s just not the same 😂. I miss the quirky score notation on those ancient things 😂.
- Comment on Don't call before 9, my minutes aren't free 1 month ago:
Let’s not forget, you could also compose your own ringtones on those 😁. Well, that’s what I did 😂.
- Comment on Bonjour indeed 1 month ago:
Every time man…
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
Yeah, that is true for primates.
But I have seen a female wolf raise a fox IRL (I have a cottage in a small village in the mountains). They are prey to each other, but I saw the mother with the fox and the rest of her siblings, she made no distinction raising her biological children and the fox. I gave them food sometimes and I saw her raise them in real time. I’m still amazed by that gesture… and we think of them as animals while us that kill for no reason at all are “civilized”… at least they kill for food…
- Comment on I still don't get why people spend money... there's tons of it for free 1 month ago:
To be honest, I completely agree. I have downloaded some pirated OF content and it’s boring AF. On the other hand, as you said, there are some content creators on PH, I have them bookmarked… and it’s all free!
- Comment on I still don't get why people spend money... there's tons of it for free 1 month ago:
And yet, more and more women get onboard the OF train… you’d think people will get saturated with it after a while…
- Comment on I still don't get why people spend money... there's tons of it for free 1 month ago:
Yeah, to be honest, that is true…
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
Thay may be true, but I can’t in good conscience deny him the right to be with his mother every day… at least not for the time being… things are unfolding as we speak and I’ll have to wait and see the epilogue of these new events to draw a concrete conclusion.
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
Thank you, it means a lot 😊.
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
Just goes to show you, we’re not that far from animals.
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
That sounded really really good 👍.
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
I hope I am… I really do… I think I’m doing OK, but I always consult other people and elderly people that have raised at least a few kids, and then kinda make my own mash of all of the info, take into account my son’s personality and come up with a “formula”… it is a lot of work though, parrenting didn’t really come naturally to me, I really had no idea how to approach a baby from a psychological development perspective. Diapers, eating, cuddling, cramps, that stuff’s easy. Starting to teach him things, that was the hard part for me… quite frankly, I was lost… she was freaking nowhere to be found regarding this, so I had no help from her… so I just started watching people in the park with babies, while we were having a stroll, do what they are doing with their kids. That was my starting point, and it was hard, but it got easier as I got more into it 😊.
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
I have been thinking about it, trust me. The situation got even more complex a few days ago (I could go into detail, but it really is a long story and I would like to tell the full story with all the details, but I just don’t have the time now). Basically, I’m now left with the option of, one, stay with her and probably suffer till he’s of age to decide which parrent he wants to be with (about 6 more years), or, two, I leave her now, roll the dice for custody and thow away a lot of money for lawyers (which I don’t have) and she probably kills herself at the end (when she looses the battle)… the situaton is very complex, I know that this might sound like I’m overstessing it, but I’m not. The full story is far far more gruesome.
And I’m also thinking about his reaction to her being either gone from his life or not very present… an oportunity presented itself a few days ago, and I’ll monitor his reactions… still, we’ll see… I know I’ll hate myself if rip her away from his life, but I’ll have to acess her influence on him and does the good outweigh the bad in her… we’ll see…
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
Man… excuse my French, but your mother is an asshole… I’m sorry if that hurts your feelings, I really am, and I take it back… I just had to say it…
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
Of course, I do it every time and at every occasion I get 😊. I love him to death 😊.
That doesn’t mean I’m not strict. He knows the rulebook, we draw and make shapes and color before TV or whatnot… not that his mom taught him any of that 🤬.
Anyway, he still loves having her arround… for moral support or whatever… and he sees other kids do fun stuff with mom and dad, and he wants that well… and he has only dad in that scenario, but mom is still around… mostly… with a cigarette in her mouth and on her phone doomscrolling 😒… but yeah, she is present.
I am trying not to kill myself solwly by focusing on the kid, what he wants to do and finds interesting, so that keeps my mind off current events… it works… for now…
- Comment on I still don't get why people spend money... there's tons of it for free 1 month ago:
AVNs? 🤨
Sorry, I am a pirate, but I donct download that much porn 😂.
- Comment on I still don't get why people spend money... there's tons of it for free 1 month ago:
I still don’t get it…
Call me an old fashined pirate, but for me, it’s more about the trip than it is about the destination.
I’ve been encountered with this fact about myself many times… I like this girl from somexxx.com website and I gotta take a look at what she’s got published. Low and behold, all sorts of content! OK, gotta pick and find them oke by one, gotta be picky about it, 1080p rips only, no 720p bullshit… aaaand after days of searching and downloading… I GOT IT ALL 🤤! And then I don’t even watch it 😒.
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
Not enough real world social engineering dating experience leads to this… as it did with me as well.
- Comment on Yep, defintely not a bad person 1 month ago:
Yep, reddit content… just thought it was intersting.