compostgoblin
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- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 4 days ago:
Oh, that makes sense, I suppose.
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 4 days ago:
Why is that?
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 4 days ago:
Knowing when to set boundaries and sticking to them is not one of my strong suits, admittedly. But it’s something I’m working on.
How do you know when to set a boundary? How do you enforce it without feeling like an asshole?
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 5 days ago:
It’s funny, but I feel like I strive to be kind because I’m aware of how the world really works. Like, I’ve been let down by reality and know the world can be a nightmare already, so why would I want to pile even more on someone and make their life harder, you know?
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 5 days ago:
I’m a fan of the line from Ted Lasso: be curious, not judgmental. I try approach things from the perspective of “how can we solve this problem”, since I don’t see any good in finger pointing. You can’t change the past.
I’ll admit, I am a people pleaser at times, but it’s something I’ve worked on - identifying the line when I start to be too much of a pushover.
- Comment on Why is kindness often viewed as a sign of naïveté? 5 days ago:
Thank you 😊
I actually was very into Buddhism a few years ago. I had a better meditation practice then, and I did a lot of reading, some on metta, but moreso insight. I don’t think I’d consider myself a Buddhist, but they have a lot of good ideas!
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- Comment on Cow eggs 5 weeks ago:
Thanks!
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