ifeelsick

@ifeelsick@lemm.ee

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨want to be a woman⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  i mean besides the physical effects like getting bruised etc, a lot of what you listed is simultaneously true for both genders. you dont think men are regularly battered about their own self image? unless you consider our socialization of taking abuse and keeping our cool as normal then i can attest to being affected by seeing “what you should be”

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨quick health tip⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Cant provide any sources but, doesnt caffeine bind to fats similar to the way that thc binds to coffee?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨i broke⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  its very real. My principle (a 72 year old educator) sent me to counseling after telling me, a fifteen year old boy, “there is something wrong with you”, however when i got to counseling i passed with flying colors. I legitimately thought i was normal for the longest time.

  Honesty will take us a long way. Allistic people treat honesty like a two sided blade, but if you can find somebody who will let you know when youre being shitty and you can legitimately look up too (not a fucked up attachment syndrome where they’re perfect) then itll make all the difference.

  oh and medication. Find a good psych, theres no shame in it and it beats self harm lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨i broke⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  its true. as a person with cptsd (bpd) ive mainly had to resort to giving myself the therapy i need through reading, being mindful every moment of the day (i legit have conversations with myself in real time to decide-what i want to say- vs the impact it will have), and psychiatric medication. The real difficult thing is getting the said person with BPD to WANT to change, and i mean with a desperate fervor, otherwise therapy is basically a silly talk session for me where i jab at the therapist to make them say what i want them to say.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What would this list look like for your generation?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  I feel personally offended that “no mames” is on there. thats racially motivated! /s

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Choose a number, 1-5!⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  number 5 for its solid structure and good distance between prongs

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Choose a number, 1-5!⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  i second this. hear hear. love to feel the weight in my hand

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon needs sleep⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m pretty mentally ill so 18 hours sounds like a day in paradise. 30 hours with no sleep is my bread and butter babyyy, anon should try it