BackOnMyBS
@BackOnMyBS@lemmy.autism.place
I’m back on my bullshit.
- Comment on Anon saves his virginity 2 hours ago:
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- Comment on Female-to-male rape, (how) does it happen without roofies? 1 day ago:
I think most female to male abuse comes in the form of emotional coercion. So, something like, if the guy doesn’t have sex with her how she wants, there will be consequences. Sometimes they’re explicit, such as when she actually says it openly. Other times, she communicates it implicitly for plausible deniability. For example, every time a guy is not interested in the moment, she does something that hurts him soon after. This could be from throwing a fit about some regular chore, to shaming them to their friends, to actively seeking attention from or cheating with other men.
I knew a girl that would tell everyone she was being abused before her boyfriend even knew it was happening. She would ask everyone to not say anything because she was scared he would abuse her more. She would also do things to make him angry in public so people would think he had an anger problem. People would start treating the boyfriend like shit, so he would start being isolated, which allowed her to abuse him more. If the boyfriend came out seeking help, no one would believe him and gaslight him further. The girl even went as far as telling relationship therapists that he was abusing her so that he had no escape while she now how documentation that he was abusing her. The girl was a completely deranged psychopath that did this with all her boyfriends. Of course, her friends were similar. One of her friend’s boyfriends committed suicide after they had an argument. The girl then milked that for pity points every chance she got.
I really advise everyone to learn about relationship abuse and vulnerable narcissists. They’re incredibly sneaky and brutally perverse, and anyone can fall for one. It takes a while for even trained relationship abuse therapists to catch on to them. Look it up on YouTube. There are many therapists and survivors that share their stories and guidance.
- Comment on Sevens 2 days ago:
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- Comment on nice, 7 money 2 days ago:
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- Comment on block this account if you haven't already 3 days ago:
what’s the account name?
- Comment on Just checking in 4 days ago:
I think the current consensus is that your mind is processing conflicts in your life, but in a symbolic way. The emotions match the conflict, but the concrete factors can be wild. For example, a dream about being in an airplane that’s in a nosedive could be about recognizing that you have no control over your current life being destroyed. Perhaps some tragedy struck your life and you feel powerless over it. The cool thing about dreams is that once you recognize it’s a dream, you can test solutions to the experience to see what their potential outcomes may be. In the example, the person may recognize that there is nothing they could do, so they decide to peacefully enjoy the last minutes they have. This was actually my recurring dream. When I tried riding it out peacefully, the plane came to a safe crash landing over water, and I was able to gather my most important belongings before the plane sank (it was my dog). We swam to shore, waved at the plane crash goodbye, and walked into the city to start a new life.
Your public shitting and masturbation dreams might be a conflict between what you see as a normal and natural human experience and believing that they are not socially accepted. I think it would be neat to try out different solutions to that drive in your dreams to see how your mind plays them out. You might be able to resolve some ongoing conflict that’s been affecting your life.
If you’re interested in learning more about dream analysis, look into Irvin D. Yalom. He’s known in the fields of psychology and psychiatry for his work on dream analysis. He even has some books where he shares stories about working with clients, interpreting their dreams, and the impact it had on them. Beware tho: the dude was obsessed with death. Anyway, super interesting stuff if you’re into that!
- Comment on Dark art drawn from nightmares I’ve experienced 4 days ago:
@NightmareDarkArt@lemmy.ca , yes! I don’t see how this post is a shitpost. It seems like awesome art to me. Pls share more 🙂
- Comment on *for 1 week's worth of groceries but yea.. 5 days ago:
I agree. His 34 felonies are nothing compared to the damage he caused as President when COVID hit, leading to the inflation we are feeling today. Economists were warning us before COVID. In his first 2 years, Trump boosted the economy by using all of the economic tools that were typically reserved for emergencies when things were fine so that he could appear effective. Then, the tragedy that economists were worried about happened, and the only solution we had was to pump money (money printer go brrrrr) into the economy while Trump made the pandemic worse. So yeah, 34 felonies are negligible compared to the damage he caused with his short-sighted desperate policies to elicit admiration.
- Comment on The stats don't lie 6 days ago:
NOW IS THE SUMMER OF YOUR DISCONTENT!!
- Comment on ultimate betrayal 1 week ago:
penguins smugly laughing
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- Comment on Just a reminder 1 week ago:
Greetings from Florida! 🥵🌴🏖️🐊🔫🤪
- Comment on Who would win: every human in the world vs. every animal in the world? 1 week ago:
What if we count all animals, vertebrates and invertebrates?
- Comment on Why isn't jerking off more valorized as an easy dopamine hit that's also literally good for you? 1 week ago:
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- Comment on Why do teeth don't regenerate? 1 week ago:
Can you elaborate on mammals that don’t menstruate? I’ve never heard about that.
- Comment on Is it just me or do Lemmy communities tend to skew left wing? Why might this be? 1 week ago:
@haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com, I thought you mike like this comment 🏴🙂
- Comment on Blebee 1 week ago:
With the powers vested in me by the University of Lemmy Online, I hereby wheretowithallas nonewithstandingly grant a prehumous honorary Doctor of Philosophae en Instectology with a concentration in Bees of the Ble to @ObviouslyNotBanana@lemmy.world.
- Comment on Depending on how you count 1 week ago:
What about an Alanis Morrissette facts community called *You Oughta Know"?
Posts:
- [YOK] Alanis is Canadamerican (Canadian & American)
- [YOK] You Oughta Know featured RHCP members Dave Navarro and Flea
- [YOK] The song Ironic is not ironic. Isn’t that ironic?
- Comment on Is someone safe if they report income from illegal means to the IRS? 1 week ago:
well, not me necessarily. if i was doing some illegal business, i wouldnt be posting a question about it. but, i get the point 🙂👍
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- Comment on math checks out 2 weeks ago:
because I call the customer service line of any one company so much, that I have memorized their touch tone menu
9 months into my daily call to Maytag: Excuse me, babe. I have to walk into the other room so I can listen. Apparently, they’ve changed their phone menu.
- Comment on Well... you asked... 2 weeks ago:
this comment thread has me crying 😂