BackOnMyBS
@BackOnMyBS@lemmy.autism.place
I’m back on my bullshit.
- Comment on Am I allergic to my dog, and if so, what solutions do I have? 2 weeks ago:
Is asking questions about basic things an ADHD thing? I thought it was an autism thing.
- Comment on I'm going to try not to swear when you're around. Is this a good apology to a coworker? 2 weeks ago:
I would censor the work f–k because it might come off like you’re being passive aggressive and aren’t really trying. Reminds of the time the actor that played Burke on Grey’s Anatomy called the actor that played George a fa—t, then made a public apology saying he’s sorry he called him a fa—t and that he wont say fa—t again, except he said the word. People got even more pissed, and I think he was fired from the show. 🤦
I previously made a comment on how I’ve learned to apologize if you’re interested.
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- Comment on Anon rizzes up a girl 2 weeks ago:
auties usually spot other auties easily
- Comment on Is there a reminder bot on Lemmy? 2 weeks ago:
thank you!
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- Comment on Trending Communities for Friday 1st November 2024 2 weeks ago:
@kapx132@lemmy.autism.place @haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com
Penguin Pebbles!
- Comment on Anon trades and barters 2 weeks ago:
i cannot understand why anyone could sleep at night knowing their value in society is 0.
You gotta switch the cables. I’m assuming right now that you only want what you deserve through your labor. If you have extra or someone else is in need, you would rather they have it than you horde it or gain some luxury. Switch the cables so that what you value is hoarding and having luxuries without any merit. If someone else needs something, your power to not give leftovers to them is confirmation of your self-worth.
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- Comment on Anon has a close call 3 weeks ago:
Thank you! I am doing better 🙂
- Comment on Dummy Thicc 3 weeks ago:
AI was a mistake
- Comment on That chicken's name? Joe Rogan 3 weeks ago:
Bro Brogan
- Comment on How funny, right? 3 weeks ago:
Oh no! I’m sorry that you’re in that position. Maybe you can find an avenue to discuss them with someone? I read (actually heard) the book The Body Keeps the Score. Even if you repress the memories or think you’ve moved on, that stuff is in there affecting everything, whether you’re aware of it or not.
- Comment on How funny, right? 3 weeks ago:
Everyone else: 😬
- Comment on How funny, right? 3 weeks ago:
Thank you
- Comment on Anon has a close call 3 weeks ago:
Things were cool at my house until my dad showed up when I was in late elementary. Slowly, everything started going to crap. Everyone started fighting and it felt like I was caught in the middle of two social camps that were fighting each other. As things worsened, I started being out of the house more and learning to grow up from friends and the streets. Since those places can be unhealthy sometimes, I would get into trouble doing what I thought was normal. In one of those incidents, I was in severe danger from strangers that were trying to kill me and my best friend. The issue was resolved when someone that saw what was happening called the police who even showed up with a helicopter to find the perpetrators (they got away). My friend and I ran from the cops too because we thought we were in trouble. When I got home the next day after hiding all night, my parents didn’t believe a word I said. Instead, they thought I was having gay sex (wtf, right?) because one of the kids I was hiding with was openly gay. This turns into a huge battle with all the adults yelling at each other. They start yelling at me with threats of punishments. I leave and just hide in my bedroom while the adults lose their minds on each other. My parents tell me that I can’t shut my bedroom door anymore. The day goes by and nothing happens. It’s time to go to sleep, but I hadn’t been punished yet, so I’m thinking something is pending. I used to have no problem sleeping, but this time I can’t fall asleep because I keep waiting for someone to come in since I wont hear the door opening. I figure that if I set up the guitar as described and leave the windows slightly open, it would serve as a warning, wake me up, and maybe I could yell for help and to call police. I’m able to fall asleep, but the guitar drops and I wake up. I stayed frozen waiting to see what will happen. The silhouette freezes too. They slowly and quietly lean the guitar up properly on the wall, walk out, and close the door. I stay awake for the rest of the night, but nothing happened. From then on out, I had mentally divorced my family and saw them as people I had to tolerate and serve as an example of what not to be like.
Thanks for asking.
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- Comment on Anon has a close call 3 weeks ago:
I get it tho. When I was a teenager, things got so bad in my house that I used to booby trap my bedroom door. I’d place an acoustic guitar on its head with the body up and leaning on the door. If the door was opened, the guitar would fall over and make a loud at noise waking me up and alerting the entire house. It saved me once, and then they never tried again.
- Comment on Anon trades and barters 3 weeks ago:
I have friend that said it 13 years ago. If you wanna be rich, make yourself the middle man. You can try to open a public company, market it, find investors, and hopefully you’ll eventually run a profit and the stock value will go up. Or, you can be an investor making money by buying stock that provide good dividends and go up in value. But, the best position is in the middle exchanging the stock. You don’t have to convince others to invest and run a company that is successful when competing with others. You don’t have to investigate and guess which companies will be profitable while competing with millions of other investors, banks, and AI. Nope. You just sit back and relax while people fight each other on the battlefield field you created.
Those are the people that make it. They insert themselves in a situation where others fight but they win regardless of who else wins.
- Ford or Chevy? Oil wins
- Chrome or Edge? Google wins
- Facebook or Instagram? Meta wins
- Plaintiff or defendant? Lawyers win
- Pay off home loan or foreclose? Lender wins
- Thousands of IPOs? Market-makers win
- England or France? Rothchilds win
- Russia or Ukraine? Military industrial complex wins
- Comment on How long do you think we'll keep seeing "formerly Twitter"? 3 weeks ago:
The next gen is gonna be making fun of Gen Z by saying “formally Twitter” and Millennials are finally going to win.
- Comment on Is it cheaper to use a plug-in oil radiator to eat an individual room, or run the central heater to heat an individual room and living room? 3 weeks ago:
This is a good starting point! Thank you very much
- Comment on Is it cheaper to use a plug-in oil radiator to eat an individual room, or run the central heater to heat an individual room and living room? 3 weeks ago:
Good idea! Thanks for the info and suggestion.
- Comment on Is it cheaper to use a plug-in oil radiator to eat an individual room, or run the central heater to heat an individual room and living room? 3 weeks ago:
Depends on the unit and whether it was over sized or under sized for the space, but restricting 60℅ air flow is a lot.
Thanks for your response! I appreciate it. Do you know how I can investigate this further? I would like to figure out if I’m over-stressing my unit because I’ve been doing that for the past ~2 years.
Another thing to consider is that if you later want to heat up the entire house, the unit has to work harder. Sometimes it can be more efficient to just keep the house close to your target temp.
Heating up the house happens so rarely that I can’t remember the last time I did that. It may have been ~2 years.
- Comment on Is it cheaper to use a plug-in oil radiator to eat an individual room, or run the central heater to heat an individual room and living room? 3 weeks ago:
I have been closing 3 out of 5. Is that too much?
- Comment on Is it cheaper to use a plug-in oil radiator to eat an individual room, or run the central heater to heat an individual room and living room? 3 weeks ago:
Great suggestions! I will definitely do them. For now, I’m guessing that I’ll prolly set the central heater at ~62*F. That will make sure it kicks on when it gets too cold and will also move the air about the house. Once I try this out, I can see if I’d like it to be set at a different temperature.
- Comment on Is it cheaper to use a plug-in oil radiator to eat an individual room, or run the central heater to heat an individual room and living room? 3 weeks ago:
I agree that burning oil would be a terrible idea. In this case, the oil would be in an enclosed radiator that is designed to function as an indoor heater. Thanks for looking out tho!
- Comment on Is it cheaper to use a plug-in oil radiator to eat an individual room, or run the central heater to heat an individual room and living room? 3 weeks ago:
Oops! Fixed it. Thanks for pointing that out :)
- Comment on Is it cheaper to use a plug-in oil radiator to eat an individual room, or run the central heater to heat an individual room and living room? 3 weeks ago:
It might freeze once per year…maybe. My area is surrounded by trees, so I think wind hitting the house is negligible.
- Comment on Is it cheaper to use a plug-in oil radiator to eat an individual room, or run the central heater to heat an individual room and living room? 3 weeks ago:
It’s a central a/c unit that has a heating kit.
- Comment on Is it cheaper to use a plug-in oil radiator to eat an individual room, or run the central heater to heat an individual room and living room? 3 weeks ago:
It uses a heating kit that is added to the a/c unit.
